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		<title>Body Image and Self Esteem: Keys to Weight Loss</title>
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Says UA College of Medicine Researcher
Lauve Metcalfe featured speaker April 8 at American College of Sports Medicine Health &#038; Fitness Summit &#038; Exposition
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Says UA College of Medicine Researcher<br />
Lauve Metcalfe featured speaker April 8 at American College of Sports Medicine Health &#038; Fitness Summit &#038; Exposition</p>
<p>                                                                        April 6, 2010</p>
<p>The dramatic weight loss depicted on TV “reality” shows may be anything but reality, says Lauve Metcalfe, MS. Metcalfe will be a featured speaker on Thursday, April 8, at the American College of Sports Medicine’s 14th annual Health &#038; Fitness Summit &#038; Exposition in Austin, Texas. </p>
<p>She is associate director, special projects, with the Center for Physical Activity and Nutrition (CPAN) at the University of Arizona and a faculty member in the UA College of Medicine Department of Physiology in Tucson, Ariz. </p>
<p>Metcalfe notes that some TV shows present people who reduce their weight by 15 or more pounds per week, but, she says, that is unrealistic for most people. “[Those participants] are working out six hours a day, which few of us can do. A healthy weight loss, typically, is no more than two pounds per week.”</p>
<p>“Sensible weight-loss programs have more modest goals but are rooted in self-esteem and positive body image,” she says. “No one can make you healthier or change your attitude. You need a support system as well as professional expertise.” That support, she says, can come from family, friends or, increasingly, the workplace. Workplace wellness programs, says Metcalfe, make sense for companies that see the payoff in terms of healthier employees, reduced health care costs and greater productivity.</p>
<p>Positive influences, whether in the workplace or elsewhere, make all the difference, according to Metcalfe. “If you don’t feel good about your body, you tend to have poor self-esteem,” she says. Much of her work focuses on women, because of the undue emphasis our culture places on youth and physical attraction. However, while women may feel pressure to appear young, sexy and glamorous, men also are susceptible to image issues, as well, and may worry about a beer belly, hair loss or being short of stature. Particularly for females, says Metcalfe, concern over body image can start early – even in elementary school – and may lead to poor eating habits that bring serious consequences, including bone loss.</p>
<p>Three areas are essential for successful weight management, she says: appetite (how you choose, cook and enjoy food), activity (how you move and engage in physical activity) and attitude (how you deal with issues of self-esteem and barriers). </p>
<p>In her book, Reshaping Your Body, Rethinking Your Mind, Metcalfe enumerates 11 skills for developing a healthy body image and self-esteem:</p>
<p>Skill # 1: Honor your personal story. Past events and experiences “shape” one’s perception of body image. Acknowledge your personal story and become more conscious of what choices you can control to improve the quality of your life. </p>
<p>Skill #2: Accept yourself the way you are. Develop acceptance of your body image in the present form. Self-acceptance allows you to channel your energies into modifying behavior, rather than struggling with negative “woulda, coulda, shoulda” thinking.</p>
<p>Skill #3: Create a positive mental outlook. The attitude that you bring into a situation greatly determines the outcome and conditions you to expect good outcomes or to be disheartened by negative ones. Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re probably right. </p>
<p>Skill #4: Practice positive self-talk skills. Positive “self-talk” messages will reinforce the qualities, skills and attributes within you, affect your unconscious mind and have a major effect on the way you view yourself.  </p>
<p>Skill #5: Guide away from comparisons. Beauty is a multi-dimensional combination of a variety of aspects of an individual that is in a constant state of change. Acknowledge your personal expressions of beauty that make you unique.</p>
<p>Skill #6: Build your self-reliance. Each time you challenge yourself and attempt a task or skill that is outside of your comfort zone, you will experience a stronger degree of confidence in your abilities.</p>
<p>Skill #7: Lighten up and live in the NOW. To fully enjoy life, stay in the present and experience life from moment to moment. Create a balanced perspective on life by looking to the future with anticipation, respecting the past for insight, and – most important – living in the now.</p>
<p>Skill #8: Reward yourself in healthy ways. Create rewards and positive incentives to keep you on track with your body image program. Develop daily, weekly and monthly incentives that recognize the effort you are putting into your personal wellness program.</p>
<p>Skill #9: Give yourself praise. Acknowledge the positive steps you make in taking care of yourself. Be open to the praise of others and regularly give and receive compliments.</p>
<p>Skill #10: Develop coping skills to deal with setbacks. There are moments in all our lives that are difficult to deal with emotionally. By creating rest periods and occasional breaks in your program you will allow yourself time to be a “human being” vs. a “human doing.” </p>
<p>Skill #11: Be connected. Many people can help you stay on track with a healthy lifestyle. Value the role that supportive friends and relatives play in your life. Take time out on a regular basis to be in touch with nature and the environment.<br />
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 20:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Lauve&#8217;s Food Habit Profile</title>
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		<title>Becoming Alive in Your Body</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2009 21:10:22 +0000</pubDate>
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&#8220;Mirror, mirror on the wall, reflecting all you see,
if only you&#8217;d reflect the one that lives inside of me.&#8221;








 





 
    All he said was, &#8220;I can make you look twenty years younger!  It wouldn&#8217;t be that difficult really, just make some of those facial wrinkles go away.  You&#8217;ve still got a beautiful face.&#8221;  Mark, the [...]]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal" align="center"><em>&#8220;Mirror, mirror on the wall, reflecting all you see,</em></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span><em>if only you&#8217;d reflect the one that lives inside of me.&#8221;</em></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span><span><span style="font-family: Georgia;"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-170" title="friends" src="http://lauvemetcalfe.com/cms/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/friends.jpg" alt="friends" width="484" height="340" /> </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">    All he said was, &#8220;I can make you look twenty years younger!  It wouldn&#8217;t be that difficult really, just make some of those facial wrinkles go away.  You&#8217;ve still got a beautiful face.&#8221;  Mark, the man who said this was an old friend I hadn&#8217;t seen in over ten years, since we lived in Philadelphia and were triathlon workout buddies.  Now, a successful dermatologist, Mark was in town for a surgeon&#8217;s conference, which gave us the opportunity to catch up on one another&#8217;s lives.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>The comment put me on the defense, and I reacted by deflecting it with a reserved, &#8220;Oh, really? Well, I&#8217;ll give it some thought.&#8221;<span>  </span>Throughout our visit and even after we said our goodbyes I found myself stuck on those few words Mark uttered, &#8220;I can make you look twenty years younger.&#8221;<span>  </span>When I take the time to think about that statement and to wait for a feeling response, what comes up is the basic fact that I really DON&#8217;T want to look twenty years younger!<span>  </span>What I want to feel alive in my body now!<span>  </span>I want to be the best possible fifty-something me!</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Our society has conditioned women to buy into the quick fix, the magic pill, and the instantaneous diet that will allow us to hold on to the hope of youth forever.<span>  </span>Media images constantly bombard us with what women &#8220;need&#8221; to make us look younger, thinner, fitter, sexier and more glamorous than what is currently reflected in the mirror.<span>  </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>What is it that we really need?<span>  </span>Sophie Tucker thinks it&#8217;s the following:<span>  </span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span><em>&#8220;From birth to age 18 a girl needs good parents, </em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><em>from 18-35 she needs good looks, </em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><em>from 35-55 she needs a good personality, </em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><em>and from 55 on, Honey, she needs cash.&#8221;</em></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>I think what women <strong>really</strong></span><span> need is a magic elixir that would instantly clean the house from top to bottom, give us two extra hours a day for ourselves, ban &#8220;one size fits all&#8221; clothing, and applaud every single effort that a woman makes to age authentically and naturally in a body faced with the real challenges and emotional struggles of everyday life!</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Am I anti-appearance enhancement?<span>  </span>Not at all, but I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s the answer we crave it to be.<span>  </span>Much like the quest for the ultimate diet, when an individual puts too much hope in external solutions without any internal focus- you come up empty, deflated and generally feeling worse about yourself.<span>  </span>I feel any alteration to the body is a personal choice.<span>  </span>Whether it&#8217;s a change in hair color, teeth whitening, or investing in a miracle bra; to more dramatic appearance alterations such as liposuction, breast implants, tummy tucks, or face lifts, each is an individual decision.<span>  </span>These body adjustments can enhance outward appearance and may improve a woman&#8217;s satisfaction with her body. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>So, if you are contemplating a nip or a tuck in the future, or have begun to give up feeling good about yourself in your present stage of life, consider another option before selecting the next external fix.<span>  </span>Consider an inner body lift.<span>  </span>Begin to put faith back in your own artistry &#8211; your own development and re-creation of your self from within.<span>  </span>I think you&#8217;ll find starting from a filled up, nourished inner self will make the reflection on the outside that much more dazzling.<span> </span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>What is currently going on in your life?<span>  </span>Are you out of balance in nurturing your physical, emotional, intellectual, or spiritual self? Commit to <span>investing the time and energy to replenish any of these areas that may be depleted.<span>  </span>Because <em>you can&#8217;t look good on the outside, unless you feel good on the inside.</em></span><span><span> </span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>I care about my appearance and image as much as any woman, but the need for external validation about my beauty, or my &#8220;perceived&#8221; beauty plays a lesser role in the equation.<span>  </span>My take on beauty now, in my fifties is that it is primarily an internal creation.<span>  </span>It is, to a large extent, a combination of attitude, healthy eating, and physical action.<span>  </span>I now realize these are aspects of my life that I do have the choice to be in control of.<span>   </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> Twenty years ago I was a much thinner version of me, a part-time model and fitness promoter trying desperately and unsuccessfully to keep my balance in a very competitive business.<span>  </span>With each fashion shoot I entered I would hear some version of the following, &#8220;You look great, good bone structure, great height, big eyes, but could you lose a few more pounds? You know how the camera makes you look heavier.&#8221;<span>  </span>Fierce dieting succeeded in giving me the ectomorphic look the camera&#8217;s eye sought, but the lack of nutrition and continued seeking of external approval drained me of my self-confidence and whittled away at my spirit.<span>  </span>When I was my most perfect for the camera was when I felt the most insecure about myself.<span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>I found this stage of my life boxed in by &#8220;shoulds:&#8221; What I <em>should </em></span><span>look like, how much I <em>should </em></span><span>weigh, what color my hair <em>should</em></span><span> be, <em>should</em></span><span> I worry about another wrinkle or an added curve on my body?<span>  </span>In reality, these pieces are a small part of the total package that makes up who I am. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Who am I?<span>  </span>I am my spirit, my energy, my compassion, my love of sunsets, hiking, and Siamese cats! I am a physical body that is strong and light and wild!<span>  </span>When I concentrate on being alive and active in my body, my spirit soars!<span>  </span>When </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> I am alive in my body, it tells me when it needs to exercise, to move more, or to rest.<span>  </span>It tells me when it is thirsty, hungry and full.<span>  </span>It tells me whether I need to speed up or slow down.<span>  </span>When I am alive in my body I feel all my emotions.<span>  </span>When I am alive in my body, my thoughts, feelings, and spirit are dancing out my life story.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>How does one escape our cultural body image traps?<span>  </span>Start by waking up and becoming alive in your body.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span><strong>Step 1:<span>  </span>Value your self.</strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Becoming alive in your body begins with accepting yourself as the unique, wonderful person that you already are.<span>  </span>Valuing yourself can start with befriending yourself and being as kind and gentle with you as you are with your best girlfriends.<span>  </span>Let go of judgment and your critical eye and embrace all of the good, amazing strengths that you bring into life.<span>  </span>Accept the stage of life that you are in right now and enjoy it.<span>  </span>As Brigitte Bardot says,<span>  </span>&#8220;Every age can be enchanting, provided you live within it.&#8221;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span><strong>Step 2:<span>  </span>Be surrounded by positive, supportive people.</strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Creating and nurturing a positive support system keeps your forward momentum going.<span>  </span>Make a list of all the supportive friends in your life.<span>   </span>This list could include family, friends, and co-workers.<span>  </span>Do you have a plan in place for regularly sharing time with this special support group?<span>  </span>Create daily, weekly, and monthly opportunities for connecting on some level.<span>  </span>Supportive people give you emotional stimulation, emotional support and emotional challenge to help you be your best. Also, be on the lookout for ways to open yourself up to meeting new friends. <span> </span>Seek out positive, alive people and welcome them into your circle.<span>  </span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span><strong>Step 3:<span>  </span>Cultivate your wildness</strong></span><span>.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Are you a wild woman? Do you even acknowledge this fabulous part of you?<span>  </span>There are many ways to express your wild side: dance, breathe, exercise, move, play, laugh, cry, paint, write, and create! What inspires you? What makes you laugh?<span>  </span>What would make your spirit open up to all of the possibilities of life?<span>  </span>As long as it’s not illegal, immoral, or fattening, go for it!</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Clarissa Pinkola Estes, who wrote <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Women Who Run With the Wolves </span>says,<span>  </span><em>&#8220;There is no &#8220;supposed to be&#8221; in bodies.<span>  </span>The question is not size of shape or years of age, or even having two of everything, for some do not.<span>  </span>But the wild issue is, does this body feel, does it have right connection to pleasure, to heart, to soul, to the wild?<span>  </span>Does it have happiness, joy?<span>  </span>Can it in its own way move, dance, jiggle, sway, and thrust?<span>  </span>Nothing else matters!&#8221;</em></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span><strong>Step 4:<span>  </span>Mentor other women.</strong></span><span><strong></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Many women have trouble in valuing the wonderful gifts they have to offer to others.<span>  </span>The wonderfully alive artist SARK feels &#8220;Mentoring is a way for women to share energy and gifts, to teach rituals and traditions and to assist others in living more succulent lives.&#8221;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Reach out and give another woman the value of your experience and outlook on life. By becoming alive in your body, and being attentive to your inner needs you create a solid foundation to grow into your most beautiful self &#8211; A self that radiates energy and vitality and enthusiasm for life that any mirror would reflect.<em> </em></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span><em>&#8220;Years may wrinkle the skin; but to give up faith, </em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span><em>courage, ambition, enthusiasm for the future, </em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" align="center"><span><em>and the spark of continuing growth wrinkles the soul!&#8221;</em></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" align="right"><span><span> </span><span> </span><span> </span>Pacific Crest Outward Bound School, Book of Readings.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Lauve Metcalfe, M.S. is a wellness consultant and on the faculty of the University of Arizona College of Medicine based in Tucson, Arizona.<span>  </span>Lauve is the author of <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Reshaping Your Body, Rethinking Your Mind: a Practical Guide to Enhancing Body Image and Improving Self Esteem </span>and performs a one-women show entitled “Snapshots of Life”.  Lauve can be reached at lauve@lauvemetcalfe.com.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 23:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Early research has suggested that keeping a food diary is one of the best tools you can use to help you lose weight successfully. A recent study confirms this. The new research found that people who kept track of what they ate were much more successful at losing weight than those who did not.</p>
<p>The study was designed to investigate methods for long-term weight management; it was published in the August 2008 issue of the <em>American Journal of Preventive Medicine</em>. The 1,685 participants in the study attended a group weight management class led by nutrition and behavioral counselors approximately once a week for six months. All of the participants were at least 25 years old and were overweight or obese. At the beginning of each session the participants weighed-in, reported the number of minutes of physical activity they had done for the week, and reported the number of days they had kept a diet record for the week. The researchers compiled the data collected over the six-month intervention and looked for behaviors associated with successful weight loss.</p>
<p>What the data showed was really interesting: <strong><em>The strongest predictor of weight loss over the six month time period was the number of days per week people kept a diet record. People who wrote down what they ate six or more days per week lost twice as much weight as people who kept track on one day or fewer per week.</em></strong></p>
<p>If you struggle with weight loss or weight maintenance, strongly consider trying to keep a food diary. You don&#8217;t need anything fancy &#8212; just make sure you choose a tracking method that is convenient. Use a notebook and a pen or create a document on your computer and write down everything that you eat and drink each day &#8211; including the occasional candy from the candy jar and the condiments on your sandwich! But keep it simple. This study suggests that developing the habit of keeping a food diary can help you to achieve your weight loss/maintenance goals.</p>
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		<title>How happy are you with the way you look?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 18:49:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Managed change: how employers can develop a healthy approach to stress  by Lauve Metcalfe, M.S.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lauve Metcalfe, M.S.</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>CHANGE IN LIFE, whether personal or professional, usually causes anxiety to the individuals affected whether the change was a conscious choice or a decision made outside of one&#8217;s control.  While at times change is difficult to adjust to, it is a necessary part of living.</p>
<p>From a corporate perspective, dealing with change at the organizational level has become a major business concern.  A national survey conducted by Northwestern National Life Insurance Company indicated that three of the four leading factors related to job stress involved changes typical of current economic conditions:  a substantial reduction in employee benefits; merger, acquisition or a change of company ownership, and a reduction in the size of the workforce or elimination of positions at the company.</p>
<p>Another study conducted by the New York Business Group on Health reported that 22 percent of U.S. workers suffer from stress related illnesses most of which are directly related to the recession.  The most common stressor, and the most severe one is the threat of job loss.  Dr. Leon Warshaw, primary investigator of the study reported that the threat of job loss was a more potent cause of stress than actual job loss.</p>
<h3>Five major reasons for job stress</h3>
<p>On a more individual basis, The National Institute for Stress lists the five major reasons for job stresses are:<br />
1) too much responsibility and no authority<br />
2) inability to voice complaints<br />
3) not enough time to complete a job<br />
4) absence of recognition or reward for good performance<br />
5) mismatch of job skills</p>
<p>The work culture, as well as the individual health of the organization, is put into a precarious situation when dealing with the stressors of change and transition.  If one views the corporation as a living organism and its culture as the life force nourishing the company&#8217;s vitality, change that is perceived as negative or &#8220;threatening&#8221; can drastically offset the equilibrium of that organization.  This can significantly impact the company&#8217;s performance measurements and drastically increase health care costs.</p>
<p>Change can also be a positive transition.  For individuals who see opportunities to grow and build something new and better, change can be exciting and fulfilling.  The way that the individual perceives the change has a major effect on the way he or she responds to the situation.  The key word is response.</p>
<h3>Stress is neither good nor bad.</h3>
<p>Hans Selye has stated that stress in and of itself is neither good nor bad.  It is an essential part of life.  It is the quality of the response to the change that makes it a positive (eustress) or negative (distress) force in our lives.  A positive stressor for one individual such as getting a promotion at work may be a negative stressor for another.  Similarly, the process of getting a divorce may cause one individual great joy, while another may be  &#8220;quite distressed by the situation.</p>
<p>An important factor in determining the level of distress in our lives is the attitude toward the situation.  Attitudes are the perceptual filters through which we give meaning and understanding to all of our life and work experiences.  Negative, rigid, inflexible attitudes decrease our ability to cope with transition and change.  Flexibility is an essential quality in the way an individual perceives the situation and the choices that are available.</p>
<h3>Psychoneuroimmunology &#8211; a strong mind-body connection</h3>
<p>Behavioral medicine has strengthened the theories on the mind/body connection by some rather significant advancements in the area of psychoneuroimmunology (PNI).  PNI is the study of inter-relationships among the mind (psycho), the nervous system (neuro) and the immune system (immunology).  According to John Koriath, Ph.D., a specialist in PNI, events in our life that are stressful can have an impact on our health and the quality of our life.  &#8220;We once thought that it was the event itself that influenced our health, and if that event seemed stressful, we needed to back off in some way and get away from the stress.  In the last two decades the research in the field of PNI has found it is not the event itself that causes illness but the way we respond to that event.</p>
<p>When we tend to respond to an event in a way that is reactive and threatened by the situation, and don&#8217;t see possibilities, our immune system on a cellular physiological level that maintains our health is disrupted, and an imbalance takes place.  On the other hand; the same event, if we see possibilities, if we are creative in the way we respond to that event, if we use our CHOICES rather than our CHANCES for influencing our health, then our immune system becomes stronger.  Instead of eroding away, it becomes a force to fight off whatever may be threatening our health.&#8221;</p>
<h3>How employers can deal with stress</h3>
<p>Human resource, benefits, and health care managers are faced with the major dilemma of how to cope with the magnitude of organizational change and its effect on the health of employees and family members.  The fields of health promotion, wellness and behavioral medicine have created some viable solutions by encouraging the development of wellness strategies at the worksite.  These programs are becoming the essential link in a company&#8217;s ability to survive and thrive in today&#8217;s economy.  Corporations both large and small now offer health promotion and wellness programs that include stress management, exercise and nutrition education and skill development, positive behavior reinforcement and “life in balance” programming.  As the cost effectiveness of these programs continues to be documented the trend should expand extensively in the next decade.</p>
<p>Companies need to focus on the organization and the individual for skill development.  When a company begins to address issues on change and stress management within their workforce the focus should be directed in two primary areas:  organizational stress management skill development, and individual (employee/family/retiree) stress management skill development.  The purpose of this dual concentration is to provide a healthy working environment for people to deal with change productively, and to offer coping skills and healthy behavior strategies needed for optimal performance.</p>
<h3>Organizational skill development</h3>
<p>The purpose of identifying organizational issues that are contributing to job stress is to first acknowledge that this process is one of partnership. The individual employee should not be held totally responsible for reacting to the amount of stress at the worksite, but viewed as an active participant with the management team in creating a healthier, more productive work culture.</p>
<p>The following items have been found to reduce the amount of stress found within the worksite.  While it may be difficult to institute every item, it has been documented that the companies with strong human resources, health promotion and employee assistance programs and services in place, and where there is cooperation between labor and management, have far fewer stress related claims.</p>
<p><strong>Healthier organizational choices for de-stressing the workplace: </strong></p>
<ul>
<li>increase employee involvement in the workings of their departments</li>
<li>enlist in the help of professionals within the community and within the company to develop personalized programs that meet your specific needs including the areas of: health promotion, positive psychology, wellness coaching, preventive medicine and financial counseling</li>
<li>implement supportive work and family policies</li>
<li>develop effective lines of communication from management, to middle management, to employee base</li>
<li>communicate frankly and frequently share key information with employees before it becomes distorted through the grapevine.  If there are sensitive or confidential issues and it isn&#8217;t possible to share everything, let the employees know exactly that</li>
<li>implement a management communications process that allows employees to express their concerns on a regular basis, feel validated that they were heard, and acknowledges management takes them seriously</li>
<li>offer regular opportunities for employees, retirees and family members to participate in stress management programs and have educational information and opportunities accessible at the worksite</li>
<li>develop current and clear job descriptions</li>
<li>offer regular opportunities for employee and supervisor to discuss performance goals and suggestions for improvement,</li>
<li>encourage an open, honest, supportive work environment</li>
<li>develop programs where employees are recognized and rewarded for their contributions</li>
<li>develop opportunities for child and elder care</li>
<li>develop adequate training for employees when assigned new tasks enable employees to have access to the technology that they need to do their job</li>
<li>create a philosophy of &#8220;I care, You matter, and this job should be rewarding&#8221;</li>
</ul>
<h3>Individual stress management and skill development</h3>
<p>In creating stress management programs for individuals, offer a wide variety of information to meet the specific needs of your employee base. Consider exploring the following areas of programming:  personal management skills, physical activity on-site and community resources, healthy nutrition and meal preparation classes, healthy lifestyle habit acquisition, relaxation techniques, relationship and communication skills, financial management, and behavioral health self care guidance.</p>
<p>These examples illustrate diversity in developing stress management programs for your employees, family and retirees. The list may look overwhelming for a small, or perhaps non-existent budget.  There are many creative ways to incorporate health promotion/wellness programs on a limited budget by networking with other companies and seeking out community resources. The key is to make the initial effort of providing your workforce with choices and opportunities to deal with stress in a positive manner.</p>
<p>Be sure and do some homework on what is currently offered within your community to see how you can utilize the talents of health professionals and existing information that is relevant to your specific needs.  Most important, get the employees involved in the process.  Ask them what would be helpful in reducing the amount of stress they are experiencing.  It is amazing how many companies institute programming without finding out what their employee base wants, or needs are.</p>
<p>Change is constant, and stress is a given in life.  The bottom line is how we respond to that stress.  &#8220;Choicefulness&#8221; &#8211; having the ability to determine one&#8217;s destiny &#8211; clearly makes a difference in the outcome.  Making a commitment to identify sources of stress, and offering viable solutions will greatly impact performance, productivity, and health care costs.  Developing a partnership in health with your employees can be a mighty fortress for the change we are experiencing in the environment in which we live.</p>
<p><em>Originally printed in Benefits magazine by Lauve Metcalfe, M.S. </em></p>
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		<title>Best Strength Training for Osteoporosis Prevention</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2008 20:44:08 +0000</pubDate>
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